The next person who posts how much they hate Valentine's Day is being deleted from my friends list. Enough with the melodramatic shit about how your life sucks. Seriously, GET over it. You're not the only "lonely" person out there, and you're not the only one without a boyfriend/girlfriend.
I hate to break it to you, but there are thousands of lonely military spouses and military members themselves who have never spent a Valentine's Day with their spouse: case in point, myself. Until this year.
Next year, probably not.
So again, instead of complaining that you are lonely, why don't you show the love some other way. I know you have a best friend, a mom, a dad, and aunt or uncle maybe, SOMEONE that you can call up and be like "Hey, I love you." It doesn't HAVE to be a romantic partner. When I didn't have Aaron to be my Valentine last year because of deployment, I made my roommate bestie Vanessa be my Valentine, who cares she had a boyfriend. I love her. So she was my Valentine :)
THAT is what this day is about. I'm sorry, but, if you need one specific day to be nice and loving to your spouse and you get SO upset when that doesn't happen, then, well, sorry. I'd rather Aaron bring me flowers on any random day just because, but he won't because he just doesn't think like that lol. But I still love him.
Disagree with me all you want, but that's just how I feel.
Now, If Aaron doesn't acknowledge Valentine's Day this year, will I be mad? No. But I'll be like "what the eff!!" I mean, really, we LIVE together now. At least say something sweet to me today and don't even try to play video games ;-) Any of you that know him though, know that he needs to be told what to do, so he needs the day on the calendar to tell him to be romantic and sweet, otherwise it doesn't happen. Does that make me a hypocrite? I don't care. It's my blog. I can be as hypocrite-y as I want!
At least I'm not posting all over facebook how my life sucks because I don't have a boyfriend. Get over yourself. For real.
Okay, rant over. Moving on....
Sorry I didn't blog yesterday. Aaron actually ended up getting home at 3pm so we took advantage of him getting home at such an early hour and spent the evening together. We went to Haleiwa Joe's in Kaneohe for dinner. It was really yummy :) I had caesar salad and Alaskan king crab legs and Aaron had Opa and Poke. We were going to come home and watch a movie but I was tired and would have just fallen asleep so I let him play his video games. I'm such a nice woman.
Today will consist of waiting around for Time Warner to shut the cable off, baking a cake, and overhaul cleaning the house. Fun!
So again, lesson for today - if you're single, stop complaining. Share the love in whatever way you can. That's what today is about.
If you need to feel loved, text me. I'll love you for the day. Either that or you're off my friends list.
Your choice.
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